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The Addictive Personality

Wednesday, January 30th, 2008

Addictive Personality is a term used to define the personality of an individual who may be prone to addiction. It can be an aspect of a person’s personality or character. No single addictive personality for the addict or alcoholic exists. There is no cookie-cutter template to find out if an individual is prone to addiction or not.

A person can become addicted because specific factors in their life contribute to the addictive process. As with most emotional disorders and diseases, personality has an influence on the development of an addiction. Those who exhibit aggression, lack of self-control, and a socially difficult outlook in childhood are at risk to develop addictions later. It is possible for an individual to shift from one addiction to another or sustain multiple addictions at different times.

Individuals who experience anxiety and depression are likely to develop addictions as a way of managing their emotions. Addicts tend to be people who are very sensitive to stress, have difficulty delaying gratification, and find it difficult to tolerate frustrating events or situations for even short periods of time. Perfectionism, low self-esteem, and anger management issues may also drive many addictions.

Although there are many different factors that can contribute to drug abuse, some researchers believe that certain people have an “addictive personality” that makes them more vulnerable to addiction than other people. Anyone can develop a problem with drugs or alcohol, but someone who has an addictive personality is more than likely to be described as:

• Aggressive

• Impulsive

• Sensitive

• Emotional

• Anxious

• Lonely

The addictive personality is sometimes described as an anti-social personality but not always. A person with anti-social personality traits may live life in search of continuous gratification. They may engage in reckless behavior, neglect to consider the effects of their actions on themselves or others, and are sometimes accused of being unable to learn from past mistakes. Overeating, gambling, and risky sexual behavior are also common problems among people with this type of personality.

People who are receiving treatment for other mental health conditions, such as depression, attention deficit disorder, and post-traumatic stress disorder, may be at a greater risk for problems with drug or alcohol addiction; though this may be due to underlying factors that were already occurring alongside the influence of their addictive personality. Since many different factors contribute to addiction, it’s not easy to isolate the direct effect of personality on drug abuse.

While understanding the link between drug addiction and personality can be useful, it is dangerous to assume that having an addictive personality means that someone is destined to develop a problem with drugs or alcohol. People with these personality traits still have the ability to make positive life choices but they must become more aware of the potential dangers of addiction.

For more information on alcohol and drug addiction, please visit: Alcohol and Drug Rehab. For information on intervention, please visit: Intervention. For testamonials on how rehab worked for them, please visit: Testamonials.

Patrick McLemore has been a recovering alcoholic and drug addict since June 6, 2005. Patrick widely known as an expert in the field of addictions, he has not only studied the topic extensively, but has lived it. Patrick has worked with the Manor House Recovery Center for over two years. During that time he has been instrumental in the recovery and continued sobriety of numerous recovering alcoholic and drug addicts.

Useful cooking tips for Guys

Thursday, September 13th, 2007

Here are some useful cooking tips for Guys …

Make A Soft Fluffy Omelet :

Heat a non-stick pan and add a little more butter than usual. Now beat the egg and stir briskly (even while frying) with a fork. This way more air goes in your omelet, making it light and fluffy. Fry till done and serve hot.

Prevent Onions From Burning, Frying :

Prevent Onions From Burning, Frying Add a little milk to onions while frying, this will help retain a rich color and prevent them from burning.

Cook pulses (dal) like chana etc. even if you have forgotten to soak them overnight :

Cook pulses (dal) like chana etc. even if you have forgotten to soak them overnight Just put the chana in a flask full of boiling water for an hour. They are ready for cooking.

To remove excess oil in any fried vegetables :

To remove excess oil in any fried vegetables Sprinkle a little gramflour over the vegetables. Gramflour absorbs the excess oil and makes the vegetable tastier.

Curry turned out a bit oily and pungent :

Curry turned out a bit oily and pungent Take two bread slices and powder them coarsely. Add this to the curry and mix well. Bread absorbs the excess oil and spice.

Cooking ‘dal’ quickly :

Add a little oil and turmeric powder to the dal before placing it in the cooker. It will get done in 10 minutes flat.

Boil potatoes faster :

Boil potatoes faster Peel and cut potatoes and boil them in water to which a little vinegar is added . They will be done in no time and will retain the texture as well.

Retain the green of vegetables :

Retain the green of vegetables Green vegetables lose color if subjected to continuous heat. So, don’t overcook them.

Boiling Pasta & Noodles :

Boiling Pasta & Noodles Boil pasta/noodles in plenty of water and remove just before it is fully cooked. They continue to be cooked even after it is removed from flame and drained.

Serving Boiled Noodles later :

Serving Boiled Noodles later If noodles/pasta has to be used after some time, then refresh the boiled noodles in cold water and drain. This way they will not stick to each other.

Instant Lemonade :

Instant Lemonade Pour lemon juice with sugar and a little salt into ice trays, to make cubes which can be used for instant lemonade.


Hope you find these tips useful and prepare delicious food and let me taste them!

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Saturday, September 8th, 2007

There are certain things that are going to attract a man to a woman. If you are a man and you are wondering what you can do to make yourself more attractive to a woman, you need to pay attention. You have to check this out so that you have what it takes to draw in a woman and keep her interested in you. Being able to attract a woman is going to be the first step in building a great relationship.

1) Dress for Success

The first thing that you need to do is make sure that you are keeping up with your appearance. Women want to have a man that looks a certain way. They want to have a man that takes pride in their appearance and wants to look good for them. However I am sure that a woman does not want to have a man that is too worried about what they looks. Pretty boys are not usually what most women want however there are a few that do like this type.

Make sure that your clothes and hair and everything about you makes you look attractive. Keep yourself groomed well and always make sure that you smell good. Women go crazy for men that smell nice.

2) Take Advantage of Her Senses

You need to make sure that you are appealing to her senses. This means you need to think about what you can do to make yourself more appealing to her through her senses. You need to have everything - from the way that you sound to the way that you touch her!

Make sure that you talk in the voice that melts her from time to time. Again having the right fragrance is going to make her feel good about you too. Clothing and appearance will take care of the sight sense and you need to make sure that you keep up on the sense of touch. Give her comfort and hold her when you should and make her feel loved by the way that you touch her.

3) Make her Dream about You

Give her a reason to think about you. Whatever it is make sure that you leave an impression in her mind. It can be anything from the way that you talk to her, the affection that you show her or the little things that you do to make her happy.

Whatever it is make sure that she can never take her mind off of you. This will make her feel good and you will be able to have her in the palm of your hands all the time.

4) Make her the Center of your Universe

Treat her like she is the most important thing in your life. Of course she should be but you need to show her. Focus your attention on her and block out any distractions. This means a night out with the guys, a good looking waitress, sweet looking ride on the road or anything else that may grab your attention from her.

You want to make sure that you are giving her your full attention and making sure that she knows that she is the only thing that matters when you are together. Even when you are not together, let her know that you are thinking about her. Text her or give her a brief call from time to time. Let her know that you are always thinking of her and that you want to let her know that.

5) Flirting never hurts

Do not be afraid to flirt with her. This will make her feel sexy and good. You should never flirt with anyone else though. This will usually only make her mad and you may end up getting in a lot of trouble if you do this. Let her know that you are attracted to her.

6) STOP - Listen

Listening to a woman is going to get you far. If you are trying to win the heart of someone, you need to pay attention. Make sure that you listen to everything that she is saying and be sure to make eye contact with her. This will make her feel good and she will defiantly be attracted to you for this.

7) Take an Interest in Her Life

Women love men that take an interest in what they are doing and what they are feeling. Make sure that you are giving them a reason to want to hang out with them. Do the things that she likes to do and spend time getting to know her better. This is something that you will want to do so that she knows that you are interested in her and what she is doing in life. Ask her that her hobbies are and what she likes to do for fun.

8) Honesty IS the Best Policy

Women like men that are honest and sincere. Do not lie to her. This will only get you in trouble. You need to make sure that you are doing what you need to in order to keep the lines of communication open and never make anything up or lie to her. Give her a reason to trust you and never let her down in this way. You may never regain her trust if you do.

When you are serious about getting a woman to be attracted to you all of these techniques will help you. Use them to your best interest and take advantage of the things that you can and make sure that you are keeping all of your intentions good when you are trying to make a woman fall in love with you.

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